The journey of two guys ( with one cat & lot of great friends) trying to get through life and expand their family through surrogacy in Thailand.

Thursday, March 27, 2014

Two Guys Vs Ten Days (Take II)


Well, here we are again. The ten day wait.

Last night was day 5 / embryo transfer and right now we’re feeling a mix of excitement, anxiety and unfortunately, slight disappointment. This time around, there were ten eggs fertilized…out of those, 5 made it to day 3…and out of those only 2 good embryos and 1 with a vacuole were left on day 5. We were really hoping for a better outcome this time with the fertilization process, but it just wasn’t to be. 

But, we’re of course also very excited. We're sending out lots of positive energy to the universe, and we all know it only takes one good embryo to make a baby. The surrogate had a great lining, and it sounds like the transfer went smoothly. They transferred 2 embryos; one good and one with the vacuole. And, the other will be frozen, so at least we have a bit of a safety net. 










Now all we have to do is wait. We should hear whether or not we’re pregnant on the same day that we close on the house and get the keys. So hopefully it will be a great day. (If not…at least I’ll have pent up aggression to take out on the house that weekend when we break down some walls!)


Fingers crossed! 

14 comments:

  1. I'll be thinking about you guys! We're also in the TWW. I'll keep you guys and your embryos in my thoughts and prayers!

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    1. That's awesome! I'm so glad to hear that you and your family have been able to reach this point after so much struggle. I will definitely be sending good thoughts your way. :0)

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  2. I am so glad you guys are trying again. Both times we did IVF yielded underwhelming numbers but overwhelming results! Wishing you guys similar luck in round 2...

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    1. Thanks guys! It's really wonderful to have the support. :0)

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  3. Justin!! Have been thinking about you guys and wanted to send an email to see how things are going. Sending you positive vibes. Best wishes in this try. xoxo

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    1. Hey!! Great to hear from you! I hope all is going well with your little ones! :0)

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  4. Hey Justin-- our very best wishes for a successful transfer. The TWW is excruciating, but really glad you guys were able to figure out a way to move forward. Sending you both good vibes!

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    1. Thanks guys! Appreciate the good vibes. :0) Glad to hear things are going well in your journey!

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  5. Best of luck J and A! Crossing fingers for you guys!

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    1. Thanks Ben! How's your little angel? Hope things are fantastic. :0)

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  6. Best of luck guys.... you're right. It only takes one good embryo to make a baby!

    We're watching with interest.

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    1. Thanks! We can use all the luck we can get. :0) Things are looking good right now, so we're just keeping our fingers crossed!

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  7. I'm so glad to hear you two are on your second try! Just wanted to say reading your blog is really helpful in my own family planning journey!

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    1. I'm really glad to hear it's been of some help. Best of luck to you in all your future plans. :0)

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